* This article was first posted on the "Katoptron" Site. Since it is no longer available there, I'm posting it here for those who might be interested.
Knowing yourself must surely start with how
the psyche develops. Speculation about biological psychiatry as opposed by
theories proposing a more spiritual approach aside, there is much to be said
which is not subject to the confusion or controversy of these subjects. At the
same time, not enough is usually made of the development of the human machine,
and I am of the opinion that most answers to behaviour in general can be found
here.
The psyche is at its formation much like a
blank page, although the basis for it being a self-organising system is already
present.
The psyche is at its formation much like a
blank page, although the basis for it being a self-organising system is already
present. Arguments can be made that this basic premise is structurally based,
as well as that it is partly due to cellular memory (and thus operates on the
same level as animal instincts). Both arguments have merit and can be
underpinned by empirical evidence (in my opinion a dangerous thing in itself,
as we tend to find evidence to fit our postulates/hypotheses – just look at how many
accepted theories have been debunked throughout the ages in favour of new
evidence).
In any event, this “blank page” condition
does not last long. As soon as external stimuli reach the structurally
functioning psyche, and note that this might be long before birth, certain
cognitive connections are made. Discomfort in the womb might cause the “baby”
to kick and adjust position, thereby relieving stress and also building basic
motor skills, and learning has started.
Between stimulus and response there is a space. In
that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our
growth and our freedom. - Viktor E. Frankl
Soon after birth, millions of stimuli start
bombarding this small (dare we call it a person at this stage?) human machine.
Each stimulus is reacted to, and depending on the successful achievement of
comfort, relief and gratification, the reaction forms part of a learned
stimulus/response behavioural set. So for instance
hunger=pain=cry=mommy=suckling=relief=comfort is a very universal behavioural
set.
Now don’t think for a moment that you’ve
outgrown this very basic stimulus/response learning. Let’s look at an example.
If I mention the word “car”, an image comes to mind immediately. Everyone’s
image is not the same, and your image is likely to change over time. It is the
mind as a self-organising system that presents this particular image at this
time. A lot of conditioning has gone into producing that particular image for
you.
I can link that with other stimuli by
simply mentioning or asking for related data. Asking you for associations
creates a mind explosion of possible connections – each weighted according to
its own relative use as related to the topic (“car” may, according to your
unique programming bring up such diverse associations as “independence”, “red”,
“fuel”, “accident”, etc., and this is just a small sample as an example, nor
does it include secondary associations such as “accident” leading to
“insurance”, “repairs”, “inconvenience”, “injury”, etc.). This is the way
thinking is programmed – you form various connections, and the mind intuitively
follows the widest path, which is by default the one most used.
This is best illustrated by examining how
children react to input. They do not always have enough data to make logical
conclusions about topics we discuss, and therefor e make cognitive jumps which
we find surprising and humorous. When I was about six or seven years old, there
was a lot of talk about “big brother is watching you”. I understood the idea
that people were concerned about the loss of privacy and the amount of personal
data government agencies had access to. At one stage there was an article that
stated that they were able to follow back anyone’s garbage and sewage to its
source. I saw my father spitting in the basin the next morning and, being
concerned that they might arrest him asked; “Is it legal to do that?” You should have seen the puzzled look on his
face as he said; “Sure, if you can wash it away.”
Humour is a form of creative intelligence in which the conclusion goes against intuitive logic and makes a surprising jump to alternative possibility - a process we find pleasurable.
Alright, out of a sea of experiences,
certain events stand out as pivotal. Imagine your total experience as the
floor, and the pivotal events as the legs of a table. The table top would
represent your values. The pivotal events support your value system, but do not
underpin every single part of it. It is on this table of values that we however
live our lives and present our offering to the world. Just as guests at your
table might take food, eat and mess on your floor, this process becomes
cyclical as your actions lead to certain reactions becoming part of your field
of experience, some of which would be pivotal and influence you to adapt your
values and accordingly what you present to the world.
Another interesting fact is that every
single detail of every moment of your life is recorded in the minutest detail,
even when asleep or unconscious. This includes a “record” of every sensory
perception. As life would be cluttered with an overload of irrelevant data if
you had to sort through all data presented to you, you only bring what you
consider important to your conscious stream of thought. This is easily
demonstrated by thinking of the things you take note of. Imagine that you drive
to work in the morning – when you get to work and I ask you about details of
the journey, you would not be able to remember most of it. However, if you see
an attractive woman in a car two lanes away, even if just out of the corner of
your eye, you will immediately notice, look and remember this for some time
after (yes, the example is slanted towards men, as they are visually attuned in
this way, but examples fitting the female profile can also be found). In the
same way, if you had just bought a new car, you will suddenly notice how many
cars of the same make and model are on the road. What do you think had changed?
The number of those cars on the road, or your “attunedness” to the stimulus?
"Lose/Win people bury a lot of feelings. And unexpressed feelings come forth later in uglier ways. Psychosomatic illnesses often are the reincarnation of cumulative resentment, deep disappointment and disillusionment repressed by the Lose/Win mentality. Disproportionate rage or anger, overreaction to minor provocatrion and cynicism are other embodiments of suppressed emotion. People who are constantly repressing, not transcending feelings toward a higher meaning find that it affects the quality of their relationships with others." - Stephen R. Covey
Your mind is also programmed to protect
itself from painful events, and will suppress memories that it perceives as
potentially harmful. This does not mean that the memories do not exist, it
simply means that they have been labeled “sub-conscious” and are therefore not
easily accessed. This presents no problem in normal circumstances, but as a
similar event occurs (i.e. many of the same stimuli or sensory input occur as
did in one of these events), the memory is accessed sub-consciously. This is to
act as a warning system and prevent you from going where you were hurt before.
Unfortunately, this does not always lead to rational behaviour.
OK, I’m not going into all the detail here,
let the psychologists deal with the counseling, let the memory gurus and the
hypnotists talk about accessing hidden memories. The point I wanted to make is
simply this – from the above it can be seen how two people even with near
identical experience can develop very differently. Add to this a lifetime of
interaction with countless other similarly formed personages and their
countless actions and reactions, and you can just get a glimpse of how the
human world functions. Sometimes I find it more surprising that we manage to
function at all, but the survival dynamic is extremely strong, and irons out
many wrongs as we strive to make it through another generation.
Wow i tell you i am really high and i have no clue how i got hear. but this is really beautiful and interesting thank you for sharing your thoughts
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